You haven't really answered his question =S
>>Okay, so lets say that you have an individual who likes Jopan, where should he start to learn the language? Honestly it's so that I can read Japanese websites (concerned with anime).
If he wants to be able to read Japanese websites, and is motivated to study the language, he could probably pick up a fairly good working knowledge in 2 years of self study, possibly less. He might even be able to pick up enough listening skills to watch raw anime in that time.
You don't need graduate school Japanese to read http://www.ichigomashimaro.com/
As for where to start, >>3 is a good place.