Really. Its all I want yet no one seems to care enough to hug me. I haven't been hugged by someone in a few years. It seems like if I want a hug I have to start it myself. Is it that fucking hard to hug someone? I shower, and keep myself nice smelling.
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come visit san francisco, there are always people offering free hugs on SFSU campus around here
I want a hug too, the last time i was hugged was in highschool, and that was a horrible greeting hug from a mean girl.
If you really want just hugs then how about asking for hug from family member or a close friends?
and people dont normally randomly hug each other, someone allways have to start it and if it has to be you then you just wanted the hug more than they did nothing wrong with that.
So keep on hugging and they will realise that you are huggy person and start to get courage to hug you back on their own.
ps. my suggestion is risky if you hang out with friends that are not very sentimental.
...or they will start to avoid you to not be hugged anymore.
;) joking of course.
But yes, do ask family and friends if you need it. It works.
go to college parties with lots of drinking and drunk people. drunk people love hugs. probably why 3 said to visit SFSU.
I understand how you feel, as I experience the same. I remember being really down and thinking "Damn, if only I could get a hug ,sayingeverything is going to be fine", although it might be a lie, but sometimes lies are necessary!.
And yes, it must have something to do with not knowing how to ask for it, or giving the impression you´re a strong independent person, not sentimental or just cold...so nobody would ever imagine how much a bit of affection would help.
I have no solutions for you, as i wonder myself the same...but at least you´re not alone in that feelings.
A huge virtual hug :)
Btw, I kinda suspect I satisfy a bit my necessity of affection through the virtual world, though it´s absolutely not enough or worse than the real world...do you think it might work that way a bit,guys?
Op here: Thanks everyone I thought this was going to be one of those threads that no one posts in and it sinks to the last page.
>>2 Don't worry. I am not the type of girl to just stop showering.
>>3 San Fransisco is a bit far from my New york. So that isn't even close to an option.
>>4
>>5 I have done this and my family never got the hint. My mom freaks out if you touch her.
>>6 or that.
>>7 I dont enjoy party's where people drink. I dont like how it makes people.
>>8 The virtual hug only makes me want a real one more. ^^:;
>>4 I think we may have gone to the same high school because that is exactly my situation. :|
Hugs are pretty sweet. I don't even care that much about sex or relationships, I just want a hug from a cute girl every once in a while.
>>11
Have you ever had sex? It's like a thousand hugs all at once!
>>11 Nope, I've had cuddlebuddies in the past though and that was pretty spectacular. I miss them.
Last time I got a hug was in my senior year. She hugged me and I didn't know what to do. Seriously! I didn't know what to do but I knew I should have hugged her back. It's been three years now and I haven't got a nice hug from anyone.
@OP, will you give me a hug?
Got a totally awkward hug from a confused girl last week.
In that case, I could have gone without it. Or redistributed it to someone desperately in need.
I got hugged by a somewhat drunk girl when leaving a party last night. Unfortunately, I was so shocked I didn't really properly hug back. I should go out to parties more often.
Come to the SF Bay, I'll give you a hug!
Wear a sign that says "Hug Me!" LOL
my mom only hugs me for like two seconds only when im crying my eyes out because im scared of school.
OP come here.
give bear hug
Cheer up buddy.
I have a evil pe teacher and all the meanness inhad to endure last year gave me probably permanant anxiety problems.
a piece of advise, do good to everyone everyday 'coz in the end of the day you'll be hugged a thousand times more than what you wished for... whatcha think?
Go to any Japanese Related event. There will be weeboos or anime fans that are giving away free hugs. It'll be hollow but you get your hug.
This. You don't actually have to go into the convention. Theres usually enough stuff going on in the lobby areas. A lot of weaboos will have signs that say "free hugz" or something. Its hard to avoid them.
sex? age?
I relate.
I recently moved cross country to san diego. I am lonely. I have no close friends who I can be honest with. A drunk girl recently made a sexual pass at me but it only made me more depressed. Lonely.
I just want someone to hug me, to hold my hand. someone I like, someone who likes ME, who doesn't tease and attack.
I'd hug you, gay or straight, male or female, it'd be nice to hug someone who I could relate to and understand..
It's been years.
I need a hug too. I'm a good person and well liked, but I feel strange asking for hugs. And I guess I'm picky too. Having a short hug may be even more painful than not having one at all. I just want someone to hold me for a few seconds.
If I knew any of you I would hug you.
I hug everyone :) but half the time no one hugs back :/ it sucks buuut at least it shows I'm there for people when they need me :)
If you know sentimental people, ask them for a hug <3
Basically I became depressed, and I didn't even know it at the time. I totally messed up my GCSE exams because of stress, pushed away all of my friends and kept on breaking down in class. None of my friends know what happened to my family because the newspapers misspelled our name, as usual, and used our old-old-old-old address...The thing is, no one I know knows, my Mum is obviously depressed herself and my brother is autistic and only understands that Dad disappeared a year ago and has been on a temper tantrum spree (Mum and I are covered in bruises because of this). The only other person who know is a close family friends and neighbour who is CATHOLIC and can't really talk to me about it without letting her Catholic ideas confuse her sympathising ability. I started going to church with her about 10 months ago, it helps a little to get out of the typical situations because Dad has almost never gone into a church with (although he's Christian) me so it doesn't remind me of him and make me break down. I was 15 when they took him away, November 15th 2009. I'm nearly 17 now. I haven't seen my Dad since they took him. I don't get any letters from him - although this is because the postman may see the address and tell people so he's protecting us, he's a little over-protective - the only contact I have gotten from him is the 10 minuet telephone call once a week.
Ignore that, it wasn't meant to be posted here, sorry. xxx
I want more than just a hug. I want a hug from someone who cares and relates. It would be so nice to not feel alone in a city of so many people.
> I was 15 when they took him away,
Wait, why was he taken away? This sounds rather sad ;__;
Also which city do you live in? I'm from the UK too, maybe I'd give you a hug or something ( ﾟ ｰﾟ)
I give hugs and high fives away for this reason. The right word or action can make someone's day.
Don't wait for a hug! Give one!
:( This is the saddest page on the internet. Anybody in the Midwest need a hug?? (besides me??)
I wish someone would hug me too. Without me asking. Just on a whim. I tend to be the one who hugs without needing a reason in my group of friends. Am I just a touchy-feely person? I don't know. I don't care either - should it matter?
OP, if I knew you, I would give you a hug without a moment's hesitation.
FREE HUGS ! FREE HUGS !
Me: Just one long warm strong hug, and all will be fine..... Right? Right?
Brain: Shut the fuck up... You don't have WHO to hug.. Get a life god damn!
Me: Don't tell me to get a life. I am a gamer, and I have a lots of lives!
Brain: 21st century.. all is virtual. Can you imagine 22nd? lol
Me: FREE VIRTUAL HUGS!
(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)(hug)
i just want someone to damn fucking hug me! i shower everyday but no one fucking hug me!!!
I just wanna get some stuff off my chest and i figure this is the place to do it. Ok, so i dont necessarily want someone to hug me. Really i just want someone to give a damn. I dont have many friends. Just my absolute best friends (this is only 4 or so poeple). Anybody else that i know is either an ass to me or doesnt care that i even exist. I consider myself a decent looking guy but no girls ever have any kind of feelings for me that i know of. I "grew up" a long time ago but all anyone ever sees is the dork who used to play with dinosaurs back in third grade. Im 18 now. I just dont understand what they all see wrong with me...
I suggest that you get a cat or a dog, and if you can't afford a real one, then get a stuffed one. Everyone feels like this at times and it is completely normal. What is unrealistic is to expect people to just give you random hugs. It appears needy and clingy and people can be turned off by this. However, an affectionate pet would not be turned off by this.
If you truly crave hugs from humans and you have to always initiate the hugs, the question you would ask yourself is: Would I hug me? It's not just a matter of showering regularly. Are you sweet-smelling on the inside as well? Do you express love through your other actions as well or just through your hugs? Have you ever hugged yourself- I mean, your inner child? Do it now. Imagine that your inner child is sitting on your lap and that you are embracing him or her. Believe that you- all of you, not just your physicality, is hug-gable.
I hope you can appreciate that I am not accusing you of being unappealing on the inside, but rather encouraging you to take the time to examine the nature of your situation.
i just want a hug from a friend or just somebody, but my problem is whenever i go and ask for one it makes me feel strange, i joke around with my friend i ask him for for a hug and he just calls me a fag jokingly... i know he doesnt mean it but that kind of talk just plays on my mind....
:( i want one too but from a girl i truly love. I mean a hug from someone else is fine but i've been wanting someone who would always reciprocate love back to me as if we were united. Im such a hopeless fucking romantic... :*(
I really want to hug, and to be hugged. And not in some dumb "bro hug" way, either! I'd like, for a moment or two, to just have a nice hug with someone. You know?
But every time I go to a convention (where I'm surrounded by nerdy people, whom I feel I COULD have a lot in common with and want to actually meet and experience some kind of connection with) and I see someone with a "FREE HUGS" sign... it just feels like such a phony gesture. I don't know. Maybe they're really feeling the love and want to share it? Or maybe they're just mindlessly repeating something they saw in an Internet video? A little of both? I have no clue.
do hugs everybody.
A hug would be fucking awesome right about now.
awww i want a hug too, my mom hugs me sometimes but its like 2 seconds, my dad never hugs me anymore, my sister doesnt probably because i used to always pull away she stopped, and my friends don't care about me at all so i never get any hugs from them of course!! i want to hug u all T T
>>47 Why don't you freaking ask them to hug you? Is pride so much of an obstacle? Are you expecting them to read your mind on the issue? Even better: why don't YOU hug them?
My father stopped hugging me when I became an adult man. Well, no problem, now I hug him, and fuck those old fashioned macho hangups. He always hesitates at the beginning of the hug, but then gives up and we hug, just like father and son should. If Russian men can kiss each other, why can't I simply hug my father?
I'm a straight, 18 year old guy, and this just made me burst into tears. I want a hug so bad, preferably from a cute girl that would actually care about me and my life. I'm not interested in sex or anything. I just want a genuine hug. The sad thing is that I'm a really good looking guy, I don't know why I can't get a girl to like me, or even just hug me.
I want a hug too, this sucks, i live nyc and there's millions of people here yet i dont have one person i can hug that wouldnt feel weird or get the wrong idea about my intentions....Even surrounded by people in a large city is a lonely place to be... Never thought i'd feel this way. i've always had a loving family, a man who treated me soo good who was sweet and caring or so i thought, he would turn into a totally different person when he left the house everyday.... Now my whole family moved to a state a thousand miles for me and I left this person who i thought i would spend the rest of my life with cause our whole relationship was one big lie... And now i dont even have anyone i can hug when i feel sad or lonely or upset, it just really sucks....
i haven't seen my boyfriend in over two years. i reeally fucking miss his hugs. i hug and get hugs from other people, but it's just not the same, i mean i can't really hold the hug or bury my face into their neck or curl up in their lap.
fuck.
I want to hug you! I have two twin boys and I sit for hours sometimes in our little blow up pool hugging them. They are 12 but they still love moms hugs. I'm older, 40+ but I don't eat but one meal a day so that I can still look like a kid! I give good hugs. I am lonely too. Hang in there. IF you don't find a girl I'll be your cougar. ♥
I'm ok. How are you?
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I really just want a hug from a boy because I can never get a hug from my brother (we fight a lot) and my dad gives uncomfortable hugs and he is pretty dirty. My mom only gives hugs that last a few seconds. I feel really lonely and I have acne on my face... But is that really a reason to not hug someone? And what makes it worse is that I'm only 11 years old. I want a real nice long hug.
I'd gladly hug you, I really would. I feel completely amputated from the world.