Personal Issues & Romance @ 4-ch

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1: just nutted (19) 2: How should I go about finding a roommate? (6) 3: Is romantic love real? (6) 4: NEET/Hikikomori Thread (60) 5: [Romance]Haikus for the ones you love[Haikus] (26) 6: How do I sleep? (13) 7: Can't focus (8) 8: Are there free rehab centers (14) 9: my mom teaches piano from home and the noise bothers me (3) 10: Introvertism and love (12) 11: All my tasks and hobbies make me go insane (1) 12: Gave myself a close buzzcut and now I can't handle it. (5) 13: HELP! I am in a relationship and I feel like I'm trapped! (11) 14: How do I remain grounded? (3) 15: Chuuni Fears (10) 16: Illegal discord server (7) 17: When I was a teenager, I molested someone... (50) 18: death is the only hope (75) 19: how do you make your business profittable? (8) 20: how to give a blowjob with braces? (141) 21: [Advice] How to cope with the feeling of missing out on love? (19) 22: Time makes fools of us all (5) 23: Not my Solid Snake anymore. (19) 24: Here comes the jet cocks!! (15) 25: Dealing with the “underage” term (10) 26: I want to fuck, but all of you are too far, also I need to find a job first (10) 27: is this place better than 4chan (16) 28: my daddy only talks about politics (31) 29: anarchy (12) 30: [HelpMe] My crush isn’t responding to my texts or emails! (10) 31: Unemployment (5) 32: How old were you when your mom stopped bathing you? (12) 33: I love men, as a man (41) 34: japanese boyfriend (114) 35: [Depression] Poor continuation (5) 36: Cannot feel love for more than a few weeks (8) 37: Is 24 too late to change my hikkikomori ways and go back to college? (10) 38: Watch it (4) 39: Accidentally gave myself an ear fetish (4) 40: no one cares (7)

just nutted (19)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-10-31 22:10 ID:QNO+V+G6

just CUMMED for the last time before NO NUT NOVEMBER
I WILL succeed this time

i will report back here, if I fail then I have to endure 20 years of curses and suffering

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11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-12 11:28 ID:RLreKik/

>>9 what a bunch, 4chan. then again you are at the mercy of everyone

12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-13 15:44 ID:qPu1SaF2

>>11

>mercy of everyone

In what sense?

13 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-15 02:58 ID:t3bKax+4

I nutted this morning and I'm going to nut again before I go to sleep. Then I'll nut again in the morning.

14 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-15 22:17 ID:qPu1SaF2

>>13
ಠ_ಠ

15 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-19 20:58 ID:/XbR7X3b

I've been masturbating and cumming 5 times a day for close to 20 years now. I can't stop, age isn't even slowing me down. Even prior to those 20 years I was cumming 2-3 times a day.

16 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-26 15:54 ID:qPu1SaF2

>>15
I'm concerned about your health anon.:#

17 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-16 05:10 ID:o+WuiX6V

cumming as i type tis

18 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-05-26 18:17 ID:buuRExgG

I just legitimately get to the point where I feel nothing from pr0n and feel nothing from fapping, and just stop for a week or two because it's become a dumb habit and a waste of time.

I should probably get a girlfriend.

19 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-05-27 19:12 ID:Heaven

>>18

When that happens to me, I just seek out more extreme, degenerate, insane, evil, kinky and taboo pr0n to watch.

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How should I go about finding a roommate? (6)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-14 20:23 ID:5L5wf1Wc

I'm pretty desperate

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-15 04:32 ID:15Zi4QSs

( ゚ ヮ゚) lemme be your roomate

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-21 05:52 ID:0b6UwSlx

>>2
You'll need to provide some contact information

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-06 16:14 ID:dO2IbBeG

>>3
You can find me over at 4-ch.net

5 Name: OP : 2024-04-09 05:29 ID:0b6UwSlx

>>4
Here we are. What now?

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-05-13 02:22 ID:VSLgwKZK

If he won't take you up on it, I will. I need to know what the rent is, assuming that's why you need a roommate. Secondly, what are the room rules, can I bring have my own room and bring my Rozen Maiden and various Japanese decor?

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Is romantic love real? (6)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-30 03:10 ID:mG6dmEGv

Is romance actually real or is it just a big lie pushed by Hollywood, the city of Paris, and VN devs to create an army of depressed lonely men who’ll keep buying their shit?

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-30 20:54 ID:O69OuOqg

I'll keep pirating VNs so even if was all a big lie I'm vinning anyways.
Romance is real, but if you are a "weird" person you will have a near impossibility of finding someone fitting your ultraspecific niche interests and requirements.

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-02 01:07 ID:iPUWCp4H

I wonder if consuming fictional romantic content actually makes male loneliness and depression worse. Porn for the soul.

4 Name: chad : 2024-04-15 14:21 ID:dkitSXwj

Its absolutely real. My relationship with my husband is my greatest fuel in life. Without it id be nothing. Not to discourage you - things will get better once youve been with someone for a few years. You will still suffer with the same issues, but you will do it while having a partner - another man who has your back.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-19 22:09 ID:gr5/4h/I

I’m in my 30s and haven’t felt it.

>>4

>chad

please die

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-29 04:45 ID:Heaven

>>5 amen

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NEET/Hikikomori Thread (60)

1 Name: Anonymous : 2020-09-12 03:22 ID:KMbhUmtI

This thread is for hikikomori and NEETs to discuss personal issues regarding the NEET lifestyle.

NEET (Not In Education Employment Or Training)

The Japanese Ministry of Health, defines hikikomori as people who refuse to leave their parents' house, do not work or go to school and isolate themselves away from society and family in a single room for a period of 6 months or more.

If you are not a NEET or hikikomori don't post in this thread.

51 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-07-24 01:50 ID:4MbyTk2Q

The worst thing about being a NEET is knowing you’ll have to work again at some point in the future when you need cash.

52 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-08-04 12:36 ID:dt+kgooS

>>51
I work a casual job at a grocery store, and I actually really appreciate it when they give me fuck all shifts after drafting up the roster.

Not only is it great time for me to give mind to the things I enjoy doing, and also work towards achieving personal goals I set out for myself, but it barely makes a difference in my income; the welfare agency in my country decimates your tugboat relative to how much you earn from employers, so there's little incentive for me to try harder and ask for more hours.

Not when the cost is ultimately the decision to neglect my own mental health, peace of mind, and personal development. I guess I could do it if I were a whore for money.

53 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-12-14 11:44 ID:92FUsohQ

ive been a NEET ever since i dropped out of highschool (16) by my parents. i want to try to move to a different country but i know itll be hard since im 89% sure i have autism and other problems.

54 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-12-16 01:18 ID:ohJmWTd4

>>53
Welcome, Anonymous. It is a lonely path, but a noble one nonetheless.
I have recently received my 7 year badge from the triennial NEET convention, it's gold plated with a big 7 on the front and a young looking anime girl on the back.

55 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-12-21 15:26 ID:1LVepKlV

I swear its better to be a NEET than work in today's climate, unless you absolutely have to just avoid it.

56 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-17 00:40 ID:fP/xVgiW

>>53

You're gonna need some kind of skill to offer if you move countries. You'd also need a good fluent command of whatever language it may be. But the main thing is being able to offer your adoptive country something that would make them want you to stay there. If you just want to freeload as a NEET, no country will let you stay.

57 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-31 08:34 ID:84TTvvJW

i miss neet.moe. and it fucking sucks. haven't found a replacement yet. all the hidden chans are wagie techie cults tied to some fucking chat.

this certainly isn't one too, but I'll post this frustration here in all places. kidsu moe and the rest fucking sucks even more to have my post there.

58 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-31 08:38 ID:84TTvvJW

this chan peaked when sexuality was around. i was long browsing it from my very shitty phone while going to various rehabs.

but the admins decided to have a piss on the users because like everywhere they are just some grown kids from some shitty chat.

kinda sad in its own way really, quality of jokes and discussion here was very high. since then it exists for the same one reason.

59 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-08 07:24 ID:Z10k+67H

>>57

>I miss neet.moe

Me too in the beginning that place was super comfy but sadly at the end of its life it was raided by CP spammers and there was an influx of incels and normies.

60 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-05-21 19:15 ID:Heaven

>>58

Cope.

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[Romance]Haikus for the ones you love[Haikus] (26)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-05-25 20:12 ID:TMXHSuWU This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

Our time was too short
Again from my world you roam
We will never be

17 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-10-17 18:07 ID:nYH1LC1u

Too quickly we split
An ocean separates us
I miss you fiercely

18 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-10-23 11:14 ID:YQ0p+YcS

alone, lost in time
pretty much NEET for 12 years
let me see the love

19 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-11-22 07:21 ID:e8IOcZny

Soon a year will be
Since my feelings first sparked
And refuse to wane

20 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-11-29 03:00 ID:clovx02J

Typing on the keyboard
Searching for some ewhores
Don’t want to be lonely

21 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-12-01 00:46 ID:dmOGopOF

Artsy girl I knew,
I still wish it'd worked, even if
you have issues, man.

22 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-01-03 03:51 ID:8LCauqMS

Still haven’t got over when you passed
Sad you were gone before your time
Blood flowing from slashed wrists

23 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-01-29 17:11 ID:Heaven

Wished you’d sucked my dick for longer
Sad I am now alone
Forced to watch porn and rub my bone
Down syndrome

24 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-12-26 17:12 ID:TBPG4OtD

>>22
>>23
Neither of these are haiku, you nonces. Try this one...

Dandelion sways
in the breeze, catches my eye
I pick it for her.

25 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-16 05:19 ID:fGGzDOTK

It was not written.
That that, even now of all times,
We collide no more.

26 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-04-07 16:52 ID:/WFXY1Pf

Nigger Nigger Nig
Nigger Nigger Nigger Nig
Nigger Nigger Nig

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How do I sleep? (13)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-09-29 21:29 ID:N6lTO94M

I'm a serious insomniac and can't sleep and when I can sleep I always wake up exhausted and tired. I'm restless and paranoid all the time. Whats the secret to a good night sleep? I've tried pills and they just fuck me up for some reason.

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-11-12 01:52 ID:yS+9ZnnG

I’ve tried these and it doesn’t work. I just stare in the darkness or end up trying to resist the urge to fap.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-11-14 08:50 ID:3sYG6qVv

no idea, everyone's on a different clock
if you lie in bed for long periods of time with a body full of energy, i recommend going out for a late night run
it may seem weird of even dangerous knowing, or rather not knowing what's going on outside but who'd mess with a guy running around at the dead of night? i myself suffer from poor sleeping habits and this just werks for me. i think it's due to the fact that i don't do anythng all day, jst sit by my pc and my energy goes to waste. hope this helps you out

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-11-19 02:18 ID:yAgyCmZN

I don’t have a bed. Do I need a bed for good sleep? I just sleep on the floor or on my desk. Sometimes I get drool on my keyboard so now I try to cover it before I collapse of exhaustion.

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-17 00:42 ID:zUkWxoGN

Eat 200 milligrams of diphenhydramine each night. You'll sleep very soundly and have fun dreams.

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-31 01:22 ID:IEEPDnuM

Drop a brick on your head every night and knock yourself out cold

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10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-05 19:25 ID:J7ECjAOH

Work out before bed until you collapse of exhaustion

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-06 00:50 ID:3g/PjQQZ

I like sleeping on my side. It allows for easier diaphragmatic breathing vis a vis crooking your legs in a sort of fetal position.

12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-06 00:53 ID:3g/PjQQZ

Taking a bath as hot as you can stand it and some 4x strength -dose benadryl can help too. A once therapist of mine I fired told me that. It helps. Tylenol PM is just as good. Don't take too much benadryl. Or do

13 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-03-06 00:55 ID:3g/PjQQZ

>>6
Just use stolen towels from the public bathroom to jerry rig your chair into a makeshift table-chair cot in this South Korean internet cafe you live in.

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Can't focus (8)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-17 22:34 ID:q1DV8nwe

I need help, anons. I can't focus on the tasks i have, i seem to have this weird "need" to do something else other than what i need to do now, i have a book i need to finish in the next days, i try to read but i find myself daydreaming or just changing music, or looking for a post to read or something, i just can't focus correctly; and it "hurts" like i feel a painless pain when it try to force myself to focus this shit is weird, i assume this is because of years of dopamine rushing my brain with internet content, is there something to do? can i solve this?
at the moment, i'm gonna turn off all internet on my machines, and just sit there until i feel like reading that shit.
i fucking hate this
inb4: i did all yoga shit and meditation, im beyond fucked.

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-18 09:49 ID:Heaven

just want to read it or read bit by bit

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-19 00:47 ID:6lPoD2ZD

Zen Buddhist practice could help you but the important thing is discipline. Two ways of dealing with racing thoughts and impulses. A. Put them off and think about something else B. Have a little notepad with you and write out the intrusive thought and tell yourself you'll look into it later when your done reading. When your reading take breaks. Don't try and get through it cover to cover in one sitting. Read a couple paragraphs then pause or read one chapter and take a 30 min break. Put on some relaxing music. Maybe some free jazz or trip hop or whatever calms you down but make sure its not something exciting, loud, or fast paced. Take notes, underline, argue with the book like your talking to the author directly.

4 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-19 08:20 ID:htJLQ93g

I have problems really bad with focusing as well. I really want to try adderall to see if that helps with the problems so I can be productive.

5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-20 01:44 ID:YiZd4ptw

>>4
You have to practice it and slowly build up tolerance to procrastination. It takes discipline and time. Remove distracting things from view. Keep everything as simple as possible so getting the task done is the only alternative to boredom. Don't take adderall unless you really need it. It can fuck your head up and make your attention issues worse, make it impossible to sleep or give you racing thoughts.

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-21 09:01 ID:htJLQ93g

>>5

>make it impossible to sleep or give you racing thoughts

I've been living this for over 20 years now.

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-26 05:25 ID:tMp4C11F

One thing that improved my focus was taking saffron capsules, the kind you can find at most drugstores and health food stores. Started with 30mg once a day and upped it to 60mg. Some studies have shown it's as effective for treating ADHD as Ritalin is.

It can get expensive though. Might be a good way to check if you actually might have ADHD so you can get tested (if you have robust healthcare that will cover the cost of doctors/prescription drugs.)

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-02-26 15:50 ID:q1DV8nwe

>>3
Thanks anon, will try that.
>>7
That's interesting, will see if I can get my hands on it.

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Are there free rehab centers (14)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-08-05 21:37 ID:RGWYL786

After 14 or more years of alcohol abuse I have finally realized how grave this situation is and I need to quit.
The thing about quitting alcohol though is that after a day or two sober I break out into horrible panic attacks, panic attacks so severe I feel like I'm dying.
Yesterday I took a CBD edible and although this is an illegal state and this should only contain 0.3% delta 9 it got me extremely high, or I was having a terrible panic attack either way I started drinking some booze and the fear went away ... I'm drinking right now as well.

Kids don't do drugs.
Stay the fuck away from alcohol, even if you don't think you'll become addicted.
Watch videos on youtube of alcoholic people living miserably or having severe withdrawal symptoms, that is the true face of alcohol not the jewish lie of people having fun partying or socializing.

ANyways I need to check myself into a rehab center because I think while I'm getting off alcohol I should have my health monitored and be giving anxiety medication.
Are there free places like that?

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5 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-10-14 01:04 ID:3Z1m9MvM

>>4
Glad you're doing well, bud. Keep it up, you got this.

6 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-11-15 21:15 ID:CKgDjeHx

>>4
We're rooting for you, anon!!

7 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2022-11-20 23:49 ID:RGWYL786

I'm back to drinking but I did go to an AA meeting today

8 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-04-03 04:17 ID:mvBzNCPP

>>7

I too enjoy Drinking. Just buy the really cheap shit and you'll never get addicted--its too nasty.

9 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-04-04 07:32 ID:9jlovJ5f

>>8
I knew a guy who was addicted to PBR and Bootleggers.

10 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-04-28 19:59 ID:zO4Zgdgg

>>1
CBD edibles don't do anything for me. Are you sure it wasn't delta 8?

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-07-25 07:19 ID:bHHo+Gvv

My nigga is spouting off about "jewish lies" while considering whether or not he needs to be on anxiety medications

I'm not about to tell you how to structure your worldview (altho you're probably better off not denigrating people based on race and/or creed), but at least be consistent in how you choose to perceive two industries which both thrive on proliferating mind-altering chemicals for profit sold to you on a basis of deceit

12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-17 00:41 ID:5p97Hnnh

>>2

Still drinking, anon?

I am. I know I should quit and that it is going to kill me eventually (I patiently away the day I find out I have cancer or liver failure, kek) but it's like air for me. I need it.

13 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-31 17:11 ID:3Ihahro9

>>10
CBD only edibles are a huge scam, CBD doesn't do anything unless it's pared with THC

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my mom teaches piano from home and the noise bothers me (3)

1 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-17 02:51 ID:wBhiG4yk

My mom teaches piano from home so most days I'll have to listen to the piano for 2-3 hours and it drives me nuts. My family has a above-average sized home but there's not really any where I can go to escape the noise except the backyard, but I don't really have anything to do in the backyard. 2-3 hours doesn't sound like a lot but it's really annoying when you're really tired and just got home from school. I'm 16 so I won't be moving out for a while. I don't know what I can do about this issue, or if there even is anything I can do about it. Any advice on how to be less annoyed or to somehow reduce the sound or get away from it is appreciated.

2 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-17 13:26 ID:Heaven

Have you considered taking lessons yourself? Otherwise I'd just invest in a pair of good headphones, or convince your parents to pay for some extracurricular activity. Or do your homework outdoors!

3 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2024-01-29 23:11 ID:17jsu127

Why don't you negotiate a time table? Instead of 2-3 hours straight she gives you 1 hour of silence in between so its not as intense. Maybe ask her to only start her classes an hour after you get home from skool?

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Introvertism and love (12)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-08-15 18:53 ID:8v6pTStr This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

Tldr;How to get a girl to know that you're only interested in a introvertic relationship?

I am an introvert, I always preferred spending my free time alone or doing something with 1 friend than going to crowdy places like clubs.

I really don't want to put my effort attention or patience for talking with group of random people at a bar, each of them talking about different meaningless normie topics while I can't even hear myself (because the shitty music is so loud)
I've noticed that people usually don't seem to talk honestly with each other because they don't talk in 4 eyes, they talk in group and they're being affraid of peer pressure.

I don't want to be part of this unorganized pointless shit.
I want to sacrifice my time for doing things I love with the person I love.

So the cute quiet girl I know from work seemed to be interested in me, told her straight away that I'm introvert and not outgoing but she wanted me to go to the bar and I did for the first time in few years.

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3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-09-04 15:47 ID:Heaven

>>2 He can always post, but may not get a response before months (or never). I wish this board (and every other boards) were more active because there's some interesting threads. orz

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-09-16 18:17 ID:zlCXFwMF

She seems kinda weird. I'd stay away from her If I were you.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2018-11-30 01:48 ID:78dfZWCb

You've told her that kind of life isn't your thing. You've already stepped outside your comfort zone to accommodate her. I don't see it going anywhere. Sounds like she would step out on you very quickly with another dude willing to play along.

I suppose the real question is, is she worth changing yourself for? If you're really interested in her you could always bite the bullet and normie it up.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-02-13 13:27 ID:sj1h/oX5

You just need to find a girl who is on the same page as you from day 1. They are hard to find because it's not like you're going to meet them anywhere outside or be easy to talk to. I don't have great advice for this other than dating sites or apps.
It seems like the girl at work takes a liking to you because you are essentially 'playing hard to get' which girls like.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2020-09-24 19:32 ID:vrfR+jz9

I can't even remember how long I started believing that if I ever met a girl for a serious relationship, it would be from some sort of anonymous board (image or otherwise) because of similar problems to the OP. I've always believed in >>6 like how you should be on the at least somewhat of the same page from day 1 but as time passes and I'm still hoping, I'm realizing I'm going to die alone. Which, by the way, isn't the worst thing ever. I've gone this long without a gf already so the rest of the way can't be much harder.

The pool of women on the internet willing to associate with any sort of anonymous board users is already pretty low, then add in my pretty narrow, non-normalfag interests, and the chances of someone being out there for me is seriously close to 0.

Intentional not-sage

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2020-11-24 08:10 ID:YcDruQIG

>>7
If you're still around, I would like to ask: What do you have to offer? What makes you unique/attractive/interesting, what are your positive traits?

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2021-01-19 07:29 ID:Heaven

I'm getting the feeling that, whereas most guys would love it, most women aren't really looking for a boyfriend off some random anonymous board.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2021-01-21 11:35 ID:Heaven

Actually scratch that, if some random girl contacted me over a tfwnogf post on an anonymous message board, I would be pretty apprehensive as well.

11 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-10-31 22:09 ID:OXfe2ye4

>>9
Nah, it's rare but it happens
I met a girl off /soc/ because she lived really close by, we became good friends and I probably would have asked her out if she didnt move away for college

12 Name: Anonymous Counsellor : 2023-11-27 01:23 ID:GXzIshBG

>>2
Makes sense for an introvert. Post it on the site with the lowest traffic where few people will ever see it. High chance you’ll get no replies and those who will reply are probably extreme introverts like you.

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