-_- Like for the longest dude constantly text's my phone asking me what I'm doing and stuff, and making off-handed and inappropriate comments about sex and cousin-relationships. At first like anyone, "eww that's gross lulul", but now it's ALL he does. He comments on every status and photo I put on facebook, and at our family reunion in may, he kept following me and offering me stuff.
He's 25 (I'm 20), still a virgin, lives in his parents garage and works two days a week for the town he lives in, and from what I see he doesn't seem to have many friends if any real ones he hangs out with anyway. So he makes these really depressing statuses like "Life was better years ago" "another day of emptiness" etc. and at first I felt sorry for him, but he's creeping me out on a daily basis.
If I tell his parents about this, I know his dad will kick him out because he's tired of him mooching off of them and amounting to nothing, but will that help the situation or make it worse?
Also as an FYI, I have told him subtle how I could never do anything like that, but he honestly either didn't catch it or didn't care.
What do I do?
You told him subtly and he didn't get it, so now you could try being really clear about it. I'm not saying you should emotionally devastate him, but you should make sure he gets the message.
If I were in your situation, I'd do this:
wait until he does it again, and then use it as an opportunity to say something like "NO, I am not attracted to you, you are disturbing me with these advances, please stop it". It'd probably be easier to do this over text or facebook chat rather than in person.
If he keeps doing it even after that, completely ignore any suggestive messages he sends your phone, and block him on facebook.
And if things keep going on even after that, I'd tell his parents as a last resort.
Anyway, what you do is up to you. I don't know if any of this is good advice, it's only what I'd do in the same situation. Good luck.
just block his cellphone number and block him on facebook, he'll get the message. dude's obviously a weirdo creep you don't want in your life, and honestly he might even be dangerous. best approach is just to cut all contact with him and move on
Besides telling him loud and clear that his advances are sick ask him what would his dad do if he knew about this.
tell him clearly to stop sticking his nose into your business and stop hoping to stick his dick into you