For some reason I feel so awkward in online chatrooms, ircs, discords or whatever. I feel just as socially awkward as I do in real life despite my social presence being purely text. I haven't been able to really get into any online community or really get to know anyone due to this. Do any of you have any suggestions on getting over this?
Think less about the context and more on the content of whatever it is you want to discuss. There's no such thing as a group of people interested in being part of a group of people (that's just fucking insane). People come together for common causes. Find something that you're really passionate about and focus on that. Community will develop from there.
It's way different now. You should probably even be glad you don't fit in with these mongs.
IRC, Chatrooms and especially Discord are internet hotbeds of awkwardness and shame. Just don't use them.
>Do any of you have any suggestions on getting over this?
I meditate. It's quite refreshing. Don't try to use online chat things like discord, anything with a name attached is normally a hellhole filed with maymay retards that were born yesterday. It's best to live with your own mind and keep yourself occupied,and use places like this for interaction. If it's too much then do what >>2 said and find something you're passionate for.
i cant really function online as well, its almost like i dont exist when i try to communicate. when i do voice chat though, im usually just dismissed as a loud eurofag and then muted.
so, i cant give any good advice, since i have no experience of my own
have sex incel
don't have sex volcel
>>9
XD got em! what a bunch of losers! I too think that losing one's virginity will change their personality for the better!
Upvoted!
>>9
Believe me, if I started having sex there'd be none of ya' left.
You will not replicate human connection online
>>14 Its close enough, only difference is ease of disconnection.
I wish I had an answer to that. Therapy would be the logical solution. I suffer in a similar matter; talk therapy eventually helped me at one point but I quit for some reason. It does not help that some online communities discourage, shame, or otherwise treat you differently for being female... I just want human interaction again. It is difficult. :/ Best of luck; all we can do is try to push past the uncomfortable feelings.
>treat you differently for being female
Won't respond to this bait
>>1
start by talking about simple stuff,
you know, smalltalk (ask for the topic, what are they doing today, tommorow, etc),
then as you get to know more and more, you
start to build confidence.
try to find something that you like, and
most importantly,
take your time, do it at your own pace.
(i know this because i'm also like you, but at almost everything)