Hi guys, I really need some advice here. My girlfriend and I have been together for little over 2 months now and we've been progressing steadily ever since. Now when I first met her, she made it loud and clear that she vowed to never have sex b4 marriage and me being a good boyfriend, completely understood and agreed to this (even tho I did not follow the same rules). So again, we were doing very well, only having one very small argument over me being too nice to her sometimes. ^^;

Well, yesterday she picked me up for lunch and the nwe decided to make out before she had to go to work. We did and it went so far that we decided to have intercourse. Of course, I made sure that it was what she wanted and it wasn't full-on intercourse, I mean that did not cum since she said not to (Just to be safe I made sure to use a condom w/spermicide). We both loved it and she went to work with one of the biggest grins I have ever seen on her. Now today, when I came to see her, she asked me if I thought she was a whore for breaking her promise to herself. I feel like such a looser because of this. I know it could be MUCH WORSE but I still feel like a loser. Now what do I do or say? I mean, we were both willing and I made sure to follow her instructions not to cum but I still feel partialy responsible...

BTW, this was my first time as well as hers.