Singles aren't the only ones with problems. Or just gloat about how great your sweetie is.
I'm not exactly sure if she loves me or she's just shy.
Her friend tells me that she talks about me all the time, but she hardly shows any affection around me.
Christ I need to get out of this soon. Long distance relationships can work, but only if the person on the other end of the distance isn't a complete arse.
>>2
You need to be more affectionate towards her, and ask her to be more affectionate towards you - and most importantly of all, ask her what she defines as being affectionate, and tell her what you define as being affectionate. People have different expectations of what a relationship is like, and they see things differently.
>>3
Been there, done that. Unfortunately fell madly in love with a total jerk. The relationship made me stronger, but somewhat bitter and still hurt. In a long distance relationship right now, unfortunately. Unfortunately as in that the person i'm with now is ridiculously wonderful and the three months we lived together were far too short. We need to spend more time together irl.
'Sup long distance relationship buddies?
My girlfriend and I were only together for five months before she moved back home to Japan. I've spent about two months over there since then (god bless long university vacations and big student loans!), but all the months in between are pretty hard. We see each other every day over webcams, but it's not the same as having her here...
:emo:
On the plus side, she's great and I love her. And if everything goes my way I'll be able to move to Japan this Summer, and we'll be able to have a normal relationship again. That's a fairly big "if", though. crosses fingers
My girlfriend and I are going to move in together. I am scared since we are doing it for school and it's going to be tough. I think we will get through it. I am just nervous.
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I don't feel worthy of my girlfriend. She's a beautiful, wonderful angel. She needs me right now, but I'm thinking of leaving her when she gets better. Somehow I just can't stop feeling as if she deserves so much better. She has a lot more money than me, and we're dating over a long distance. She keeps having to cough up cash to visit me, but I can't afford visiting her. I can't hold down a job because my studies suffer too much every time I try. I can barely handle school because of my stupid mental problems. I'm trying to become a better person, but it still feels as if I'll never reach her level. I especially feel embarassed when it comes to how her family must feel when it comes to me. Her father's a rich doctor, and the ambitious type of bloke. Hard worker too, and so is her mom. She runs a successful company. It feels as if I'm a financial leech, since my girlfriend keeps having to visit me, and pay for everything she wants to drag me to. Now, I'm no delusional macho bloke who wants to pay for "his woman", but being able to go dutch would be really good. She's even payed twice to have me flown to to her place. Now, she's not a rich, spoiled brat. She had to work for her money. Her allowance isn't particularly big and goes mostly towards her tuition fees.
What do I do? Where do I try to fix things? I'm madly in love with her. I would love to spend the rest of my life with her.. She's already expressed desire to spend the rest of her life with me. We've known eachother for half a decade, however we didn't get together until a year and a half ago. But somehow, no matter how hard I try, I just can't manange to kill the feeling that she's sacrificing too much by being with me. That she's getting deprived from tons of awesome stuff she could be doing instead, spending her hard-earned money on better things and being with someone better. Someone more equal to her. Someone as very wonderful as what she deserves to have in her life.