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Okay...I feel kind of sympathetic toward your plight so I'm going to help you.

First of all, life is not a Hentai Dating Sim. It just isn't. Keep this in mind. Second, do you KNOW she is in a relationship or is this something she just SAID. Some girls throw out the boyfriend angle as a way of putting up a comfort barrier. That way they won't be subjected to horniness, neediness, or come ons. This is normal and natural given today's political climate. And your fears of being used as a "toy" or more appropriately an "Emotional Tampon" are WELL warranted.

The fix? Very simple. Have some confidence. Don't get fixated on her because you "like her". Dude, I'm telling you this right now.

No matter how pretty a girl is, how nice she sounds, how good she smells, or how "captivating" she may be. Someone, somewhere is sick and goddamned tired of her bullshit.

Being attracted to her is one thing, but don't let it override your common sense. Have more confidence and remember that this girl is not the only girl in the world, nor is she the only girl for you.

So do what you do, change nothing, have more confidence and if you really like her. Just tell her one day that you like her and let her now how attractive she is to you. Don't just come out and be blunt because that sounds bad. Bullshit her a little bit. Learn how to bullshit women. Make them feel more important than they really are and once you have them, let them down sloooooowly.

A buddy of mine from Brooklyn told me that one. Tread lightly but I would say something like "Baby if you were my girlfriend we'd probably do this right about now" and mention something fun. It may not get an immediate response, but she'll think about it.

And if it doesn't work....then Oh well. Life goes on and tomorrow is a new day. And if her boyfriend is real and gives you shit, you tell him in your most assertive tone "Don't you fuck with ME, Buddy!" and turn around and walk away from him. Chicks dig it when guys fight over them.