i have known this guy for awhile now, he goes to the same college as i do, but he's a few years older than i am. we don't talk much in person because we don't see each other that much, but normally, we'd talk online. sometimes when i was depressed he would comfort me, so he's a really nice and sweet guy. and i know that he has a crush on me, because even though now im on my summer vacation, he sends me email and asks me how i'm doing and stuff. but the problem is, i don't like him at all.

sometimes he can be overly senstivie, "woe is me" kind of thing, and that annoys the crap out of me. like i just wish he can get over himself and stop feeling sorry for himself, like he got it so bad. but i know for sure that he likes me, and im just confused over what i should do.

i will be honest here and say that i'm not attractive. this is the first time a guy ever pays attention to me, and god knows when the next time will be. so i dont know if i should just settle with this guy, because i really am sick of being lonely, or should i just say the truth and tell him that i don't like him?