Well I am not trying to be a jerk or making any of this up at all. I am actually very confused what to do at this point. I don't want to tell m y wife because I don't want to hurt her at all. Like I said other than sex we have a great relationship. However I also have this that I am dealing with and it's extremely hard for me right now.

I'm just confused how am I going to deal with all of this. I'm pretty scared right now.