Hey, i'm like the same... i dont like discos and stuff like that, i probably wouldn't even leave the house if not for some anime events and buying things. Anyway, I met my current gf online, and actually she wants to move to me after we visited us alot (~1-2 hours with plane). Shes not so much otaku like me, but she doesnt go out much too, and shes really nice :)
Well, if your not into online stuff i dont know :/