23, 24 soon. Virgin. Was originally a Christfag who wanted to wait. Probably wouldn't have if I hadn't been in a long-distance relationship and it went sour before we were around each other too often. I thought a lot about my reasons for why I didn't want to have sex, which led to me thinking about what sex means to those who engage in it. As long as I am unaware of what it means to another and as long as I'm unaware of what it would mean to myself, I won't engage in it with a person, in order to avoid any sort of drama.

Furthermore, I often wonder what effect my having sex will have on future partners, especially if I decide to get married in the future.

tl;dr It's a serious issue for me that I have to consider for each situation I'm in.