Problem mentioned above. I never really thought I'd have a crush on teacher. Had some nice and good-looking female teachers before, but this one's special. I just can't get her out of my head, it's becoming quite frustrating as I don't know what should I do.
So basically I'm studying in high school and met this teacher like three years ago when school began. It was nothing then, just thought that something to "look at" when the classes are boring. First year passed. Then at the beginning of the second year, I dunno what struck me, but I'd say that I got a little bit "closer" with her. I mean like just talking in class (and greeting in corridors, looking deep into eyes, blah blah...), but it just felt somehow different. We get along well. I started to really work hard with the subject she's teaching, and actually got my grades up. It took many sleepless night to finish many projects, as I made everything as fine as I could. It's just great feeling when she says that whatever I produce is great and nice to read and all. Of course that's just the way teachers should encourage their students, but you get the point.
And quick forward to present. My last year in school is rushing to it's end. I've been thinking about confessing to her, but what I'm afraid is losing my face in front of her. There once was time when I tried to tell one girl that I'm interested about her and ask would she go out with me, but got rejected. I know I was few years younger than what I'm now, but it kinda scarred me about the topic for some time.
I'm quite shy (seems to be really often the case here), and very emotional. To tell the truth, if I was given a chance to fuck her, or take her out to dinner and whatever romantic, I'd choose the latter. Maybe I'm weird, and that's why it feels like I'm never accepted by anyone.
Okay, got little off the track. What I'm wondering now, is that should I do something about the situation, or just let it go? I don't know for sure if she's dating anyone atm, but at least she's not married. And then there's the age difference; she's bit over 30 and I'm just 18. Now this is starting to seem like Onegai Teacher (w/o the whole alien thing :) ), but would there even be a chance for anything with age difference like that? And of course I've been thinking that would woman that can take care of herself (as in financially), want to date a guy who's still studying?
There's so many questions, but so few answers :/
Still going, has somebody had same kind of situation, and done confessing? If yes, how did it go, and in what way you did it?
And lastly (yes, this will be last for now), would it be weird for me to ask "half-unknown" woman to have dinner with me?
Big thanks for anyone who took time to read my odd story, I appreciate it. And now I'm out.
Charlie Chaplin, Errol Flynn, Howard Hughs, and Roman Polansky are all famous for, besides being in the film business, being in relationships with younger people.
It's natural.
If ur going to do something, however, think of all the possible consequences, for both u and ur teacher.
If u both, are willing to handle the consequences, go for it.
Juan Peron, ex-President of Argentina, also had relations with underage people after his famous wife (Eva-remember the movie starring Madonna)died.