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52 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-03-22 23:41 ID:1XmIg9JS

>>49
I gotta be honest with you. I just don't see it. I really don't understand why you like her so much. The way you describe her in this topic... Is very superficial. you have highlighted all the bad parts and none of the good. Maybe I'm missing something... I don't know.

What I do know, from all the info provided. You are much too good for her. I'll highlight so info:

  • She and you broke up.
  • She isn't giving you much attention,

-- Because She's too busy
-- Or because she's too busy to talk TO YOU

  • You and her live in different COUNTRIES

-- Visiting will be tough
-- Moving will be tougher.

  • It's a Long Distance relationship that started on the web

-- Not a bad thing, but how things proceed will differ
-- Easier to lie and manipulate a trusting person
-- You are a trusting person

Those are some info I had in my head right now.

But anyways, Listen, since your so gun-ho about her. visit her. Don't move to America to see her. Just save some cash and plan a trip. Head to her town, The more of a tourist spot it is the better, and just ask her to show you around. If her parents ask, just saw your a friend of a friend of hers and you are new to town and explore with her. Get to know her in her own environment before you go gaga over her. Because from what I can tell, she isn't going as gaga over you. Maybe she really likes you, maybe she doesn't. I can't tell you that, and not even yourself can tell you that. We just have to make the best observation and inferences as we can from what we got.

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