The truly cool don't often go anywhere, if they want to drink they have their drink right where they are. If they need to do anything at all its going to be right at their fucking house and going places is only about either making money or restocking in booze and cigarettes. If you want shitheads go to bars and pool halls, if you want old fags go to coffee shops, if you want anonymous you have to go up to his door, bust in and jump on him because he's going to avoid you as much as humanly possible because of what you are. Everyone knows that there's no way in hell you could ever accomplish that, you are forever stuck to meet randoms in some public outing. To be honest I prefer to deal with individuals individually rather than 20 non individuals at once, it is all a matter of logic really but, you're also retarded for wanting a more involved situation from that without so much as saying anything about it, the hell did you two do when you were together, watch television all day? At least throw televisions off the freeway or something instead, god. And what would posess you to think that a shy kid is going to know let alone even let himself ever believe that its what you want when you're not making that clear? Well, maybe he just didn't want you enough to take any chances, try being alone for a while, like 20 years and then see how you act around people ever. I guarantee you it'll be different.