well, bars aren't usually filled with frat boys, frat houses usually contain them just well. but if are still afraid of bars, try a cafe or another any place where people usually go to chill. hell starbucks is full of 30 year old college hipsters, so you won't have to worry about them not being uneducated just very pretentious.

but as a girl, it shouldn't be a problem to find guys as long as you are decent looking and are well kept. come on, you are 1 of 4 girls that visit 4ch, just get yourself out there and watch the guys fight over you.