Hey OP, how about ... BEING A MAN.

Too bad your personality seems kinda weak, the only way to get out of that, is to actually change your way of life. How to change your way of life? A lot of willpower and discipline. IF you want girls.

I myself am only a girl but if a man has such an attitude that he can't even figure out what's wrong with himself, maybe the problem is with him. Not saying that those women are acting wrongly by not answering you and saying something like: 'You are weak, shoosh shoosh!' but, remember this, first steps are taken by men, that's the way most women feel.

I myself have taken first steps many times, but it wasn't with people i met online, online meetings are easy to forgot, and online friends aren't really friends, whenever you talk with am it's like talking to yourself, since you don't receive physical responses.

Could you tell me how old are you ? Because if you are 20-something you would be better off going to a disco.