Mind my asking what -sort- of Asian? My best friend from home happens to be Korean and she, I think, is in a similar situation to you; she's not a Christian and doesn't fit into the Christian youth groups a lot of her peers attend and tends to be considered sort of white-washed because most of her friends are Caucasian and Latino.

I wouldn't turn this into a race issue, though. I think the issue at hand, with the limited amount of information I have, is your "dark view" of relationships and marriage. You seem like a friendly guy with diverse interests, employed, and college-educated. But women are really turned off by cynicism regarding relationships. Sarcasm in response to a female's interest and fear of commitment are things most genuine in their intentions are really not keen on. Recognize the things that went wrong in your parents' relationship, but realize that you've witnessed that and possess the life experience not to make the same mistakes. Keep it positive, fella.