>Well, at least you were being honest, I suppose. Perhaps you should look to your own advice, too, though. "It could prove interesting once you found out about her inner self, no?"

>>8 here

Most women are pretty stuck to this type of things because they had this childhood with enchanted princes and less about their personalities, though with age they start caring about personality, like i do, we still go for the image, and not just the personality.

In truth i do have a boyfriend and he's not that good-looking but i am completely in love with him, and we've been together for a long time now, he too has an image, though it's more related to the things he did in his past, and does now, because he's strong and reliable. He's attractive, and so am I. I don't want to sound arrogant at all, I'm trying to analyze the situation so that i can maybe help.

Just wanted to say that not only looks matter, but sensuality or image matters a lot too. So whoever wants to look for a girlfriend should create their own image, the generic nice guy doesn't work anymore, at least not with most of the girls. It is not sad or bad that women work this way, they just do.

It doesn't necessarily mean that I am less intelligent than a woman who likes unattractive guys, it just means I work that way, and there is no point to change it because ... It's only a relationship, i don't value them that much. If there is love, there is, if there isn't, there simply isn't, there a lot more things to love in this world, to whom we can dedicate our lives to.

Great genius were made like that, love yourself, and your work above everything else, that is a great big step to having women like you btw.