Attracting girls (28)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-10 22:17 ID:HqfKzl/E

What the hell do girls find attractive?

Something different to being confident and fit and healthy, I am those..and it isn't just that.

I'm not shit faced ugly either. Could you ladies describe some scenarios where you find a guy attractive?

I'm in college(UK) currently and whilst it's still early days, i'd like to know if i'm creating an aura of attraction at all. I understand that being seen smiling and laughing can be seen as attractive, what I want is more info on the lines of that.

I'm not shy, but I won't talk to a girl unless the situation allows it comfortably. With cliques abound it isn't exactly a case of just walking up to them either.

I know a bit about body language, i've had some girls pointing their feet and looking at me, but i'd have to be stupid to base everything just on that.

TL;DR
Please tell me subversive techniques that WORK in attracting girls, preferably from girls themselves.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 03:07 ID:/GLbUOQO

show 'em your dong

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 14:59 ID:DtgMZKR7

>>13-14
100% correct. With an infinite money hack, you have no more worries about girls.

Although life can be a bitch, you might accidentally fall in love with the one girl in the entire world who doesn't enjoy money. If such a thing even exists.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 17:48 ID:/LCcKCcK

Girls aren't so shallow to like money. It only seems that way, because when you, a man, have money, you have confidence. And the confidence shows.

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 07:46 ID:DtgMZKR7

Not just the confidence, but the excessive amounts of gifts. Guys who have millions of dollars can afford to waste it on that sort of stuff, whereas the rest of us can't.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 07:50 ID:/LCcKCcK

>>18
It's mostly the confidence thing though. That's why you can sometimes see some broke ass men with some good or atleast average looking women.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 10:43 ID:DtgMZKR7

Yeah, but imagine what they'd get if they were also rich.

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 11:19 ID:/LCcKCcK

>>20
Everyone dreams of being rich or having more money then they need. It's not a crime. And if all you gonna do is complain and whine about it, You either do two things.

Shut up and get some money

or

Stop bitching and live with your lonely self.

If you don't have money, you have no one but yourself to blame.

TRUST me, despite what you may think, a girl isn't out for your money.

Although I should be wary of trolls, but I don't care.

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 13:31 ID:DtgMZKR7

Nobody's really complaining about not being rich. I was just stating a piece of knowledge which I have gained from my own personal experience.

Besides, if women really weren't after money, the whole enjo kosai concept wouldn't exist.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 15:25 ID:iRBnBRw/

> Although I should be wary of trolls, but I don't care.

This is my attitude when browsing 4-ch. It makes it more fun.

On-topic, I agree with >>17. Money's a part of it, but with money comes confidence and thus, attractiveness.

24 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 17:33 ID:EXnxRqqj

Reading threads like this one makes me never want to have a relationship ever

25 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 20:01 ID:Heaven

Even if girls weren't after your money, they would probably at least want you to have some.

As a guy, I feel I shouldn't even have a girlfrind unless I have some soft of income, so I wouldn't have to rely on her if I needed money (which would be horrible), and so I can help pay for any activities we do together.

Although not to the same extend, I look for the same in women. It's just the sense of secureness.

26 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-15 21:37 ID:TPXOsu5C

... Money means nothing, reading this made me feel sad that men perceive women as being money-chasers.

>so I wouldn't have to rely on her if I needed money (which would be horrible)

What's so wrong in that ?
You guys want to know what is NOT attractive ? This type of conversation, i mean... why did you bring money up anyway ? Of course that having money = having no problems finding women, but the type of women that you will get are the type of women you are worthy of getting.

What's attractive to me in men is... honesty and dedication to his work.

27 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-16 22:30 ID:Heaven

>>26

You missed my point. I was saying that for both women and men having a steady source of at least some income helps.

I wasn't talking about having enough so that they're attracted because of the money. I would stay away from women like that.

28 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-17 02:35 ID:Heaven

>>27 oh... erm... im sorry for misunderstanding you >__>"

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