I'm kinda funny about who I email....
Can you generalize these questions for me?
Um, wow. HOW old are you again? Gee whiz, you act like you aren't an asshole or something too...
Most people are jerks, nobody's perfect. If you are looking for that saintly woman who is just perfect, good freaking luck.
That's why you talk to EVERYONE. It's your time on this planet, and it's up to you to decide who you wish to spend it on. "Fashion victims" and "self absorbed" types are the least of your concerns. Usually these people make themselves known off the bat.
You gotta kiss a lot of frogs you do. Sorry, that's the same for everyone. Remember there is no such thing as love at first sight or anything.
LIFE IS NOT AN ANIME. You have to get to know who you are dealing with...that just takes time and talking to people. It's not like you're going to get married the same fucking day you talk to them. Gee whiz, man get over your damn self.
Don't be such an angry virgin about it. Just....fuck....LIVE a little man. Talk to people, go places, do things. Try something new or different. Make a day out of it.
There are no guarantees in life. Let me say it one more time
LIFE IS NOT AN ANIME. That's a GOOD thing.