The phone number thing was a test, you'll pass if you don't make a big deal about giving her number to others, but you show interest in a protective, dominant male form.

But I want you to leave OG the fuck alone, she sounds like someone I knew who... well, she's insane. I didn't see it at first, we met online then met IRL a few days later since she lived so close. But when I was with her she kept bitching about her ex bf's new gf, and how his old girlfiend died in a rock-climbing accident. The next thing chilled my spine: she then sat there laughing about how his girlfriend was dead.

While I'm now saying OG will be this bad, she doesn't sound stable enough to live her life alone. I want you to do something daring that you may not agree with at first. Knock some sense into her, tell her she needs to sort herself out and stop rushing into relationships. Tell her she has family to help with her problems and if they can't help she needs to seek professional help. I hope you see where I'm going with this.

The reason I'm saying it isn't because I'm a sadistic asshole that enjoys seeing unhappy people, but because I want her to sort her life out before she makes it worse. I have no contact with her so you have to do it for me.

A thousand thank yous if you actually go through with it.