Mysterious Email, possible secrets!? What do I do?! (17)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-19 07:01 ID:YXFG/Gfh

I have a girlfriend I love more than anything. We have an amazing relationship together, and have been together about 2 years. We have many plans and are planning on getting married sometime soon.


recently...she asked me to check her mail for her. So I did. I did happen to glance at this one message in her inbox entitled "No Subject" that was from a guy.
Now, I am far from the jealous type, but I know all her friends, and I never heard of this Mysterious Guy's name before! So I...clicked it! ...the first thing I seen...was a message that said,

"Hugs and Kissez"!!! With little hearts and things around it.
Some guy sent her this for Valentines day!

But here is the worst part. She just kinda brushes it off like its first she seemed offended by the guy, but now tonight when we talked, she acts like its no big deal! She even tried to blame it on an accidental message from someone else...

I don't understand. What should I do? I can't get mad at her, but I am kind of hurt feeling because she can't understand why I am annoyed about someone sending her a message that says "Hugs and Kissez"...

I need some help here....

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-19 07:53 ID:VL0ftjHq

tell her you are upset by it. just be honest and ask her to be honest about it.

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-19 07:57 ID:EA0gLyPf

Take it fucking easy! Perhaps its just some guy that likes her that she hardly knows. Maybe she's acting like it is no big deal because it isn't.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-19 11:23 ID:mdQ2MSqW

Honestly, if she even allows you to check her e-mail, then it means that she does not have anything fishy to hide from you,... Why don't you appreciate this show of trust?

If you overreact, you will be teaching her that it's best to not tell you things, because you're unable to understand them. And this will only make you even more uncomfortable. Whatch out, it would be stupid to ruin your relationship in this way.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-19 16:55 ID:Heaven

Any girl will have multiple suitors.
You're going to have to get used to other guys hitting on her.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-20 01:45 ID:jLaVUxa2

Punch her in the mouth! Show her who's boss! Don't listen to me!

7 Name: da PG king : 2008-02-20 01:54 ID:+rdF3/Rq

violence begets violence

action and couteraction

yin and yang

dont go >6 on her... way bad idea.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-20 06:45 ID:Heaven

>>6 even said not to listen to >>6.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-20 07:02 ID:L0A+w7Jd

Maybe its just some online friend she has had for years that just acts goofy around her. Its probably no big deal.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-21 15:18 ID:9m+dnOHl

i wouldn't be too happy about it, but it's prolly no big deal.

probably just some chump who wanted to say something other than 'happy valentine's day'.

stay cool man...i don't really like my girl being close with other guys too..i admit i'm possessive like that. but staying cool and stepping back for awhile really does wonders most times, as hard as it may be in the heat of the moment.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 03:05 ID:yx0DaqYA

Apologize, ask how she knows the person, and then ask if that's normal behavior from him that she's comfortable with.

Alternately, apologize and then ask if you can meet him and some of her other friends to hang out, get a sense for what he's like, and thus put your mind at ease.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 06:49 ID:Ave6vWQN

i would go like what >>10 says because i myself am i like that. I was in a situation like this where my gf asked me to check her email for her and i came across and email like this on valentines day. i was pissed off and a bit confused being a bit possesive and protective, and i talked to her about it and it was no big deal :]

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-23 07:55 ID:VkgcZ0ZX

If you so insecure. You gotta crank up your game to charm her even more.

You cant change how that guy feels for her. But you can treat your girl even better so this mystery guy cant compete.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-25 04:20 ID:yx0DaqYA

>>13 is da PG king. Lol

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-25 11:46 ID:Heaven

>>14 Inconclusive evidence, as the word bitch wasn't written even once.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-26 02:36 ID:VkgcZ0ZX


No. lol sorry it wasnt him.

I guess I did word my sentences a little gangsta :P

daPG king is infiltrating my brain lol

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-02-26 09:16 ID:Heaven

>>16 lol, he is like Morita Senpai from Honey and Clover, but without the artistic genius part

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