I have a really cute cousin who drops by my apartment all the time to bring me food or tidy up the place or even just to hang out with me. She comes over at least 3 days a week and sometimes she even sleeps over. She's probably the nicest and sweetest girl I know and it's really making me fall for her. I just want to hold her in my arms and make love to her, but the only thing that's stopping me is that fact that she's my cousin.
I really don't know what to do about all this. It's really killing me. Whenever she calls to tell me that she's coming over I feel so giddy and I get butterflies in my stomach. I want to stop thinking about her in that way since I know that things would never happen between us. I've hooked up with some other chicks and even tried going out with one girl just to get my mind off my cousin, but when it comes down to it, no girl can really compare to her. She's everything I want in a girl.
What should I do? Is there a safe way to let her known how I feel about her? I definately don't want to ruin what we have now so I kind of want to avoid that. Please help me!
No safe way, but if you want to kill your retarded emotions you should definately just tell her. I dare you to do it, do it for the lulz and give us a full briefing.
Tell her how you feel then maybe she can respond it to you in a good matter (if she is a good person that is). Tell her why you have crush on her and such.
Who knows it could just be a family love (not serious love).
But also tell her that you are not too serious or else she might be too surprised.
Hope it helps.
Or, wear a condom. We already have enough retard children.
>>4 like youself.
Also cousins aren't directly incest.
>>6... but you still going to have retard babies.
(i know you are but what am I?)
perv!!!!!!
FCKR
I've had attraction to a first and second cousin of mine before. I didn't act on anything and it passed after a year or two. I also had a cousin who had a crush on me. That also passed in time. IN other words, this may not be a permanent thing.
You need to consider what you mean when you say she's "the perfect girl". How well do you really know her? Are you sure it isn't jstu infatuation driving you? Other issues: consider them.
I suggest reporting your thoughts/feelings about her here so that we can help you by being a bit more rational (perhaps).
Finally, if it looks dead determined that you sincerely like/have a crush on/whatever her, then it's ok to tell her casually and say "I really am attracted to you. I know that's odd in society, but I wanted to say that." Say no more, and don't push it. If it turns out she ends up feeling the same, it's possible she'll bring that up with you. If she doesn't, it's not something that the two of you would likely be comfortable with in the future.
>>7 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RMqR8-rn_yQ&watch_response
Yeah, but with a "normal" relationship people don't do such deep introspection. Most people just go on their feelings. I think the OP should have the same liberty. Maybe people should do more evaluation before going into a relationship, but if the OP wouldn't do it normally, nothing should change the game because it's his cousin.
9% chance of mental handicap with cousin couples, as opposed to 3% for normal couples. Not a huge increase. And since you're already pretty unintelligent yourself, you have nothing to brag about.
said an irritating buzz that sounded like a fly... Damn, wheres my raid nigga?
man i cant believe you guys are actually encouraging this crap.
>>13
I believe it would be more damaging to suppress feelings than engage in an incestuous relationship.
(Assuming both people are into it)