I have a bit of a problem right now in my life.

Recently, I just got out of a casual sexual relationship that was quite fun. Hot, sweaty, no-hole-unplugged all-night-every-night sex/BDSM play with a female friend of mine... whew, it was amazing!

But now that she has moved, I am looking back on the situation and thinking... I still feel something is missing. I still feel unsatisfied, and I think I know why: I haven't been in a relationship in three-and-a-half years, and I'm slowly beginning to miss that. I've slept with 6 people and fooled around with 5 others (I think...) in the past 3 years. However, these were ALL casual encounters... one-night stands and fuck-buddy arrangements. I try to find myself a sweet, nice, down-to-earth girl, and they all seem to flake out on me... and I can only find people that are uninhibited and eager, but also a little psycho O__O;;.

This frustrates me, as it's not like I'm being particularly pushy... I stopped trying to fuck on the first date a good while back, and have refined my more gentlemanly qualities, so I'm not (I hope) coming off to the "nice girls" as some kind of sleazebag... yet no luck in terms of finding a girl who will LOVE me for who I am. =(

...I'm sick of fucking; I want to know how it feels to make love again. Help me?