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You know, "take him out on a drink" is very different to "take him out and get drunk out of your skulls". Being sitting in a rather noisy but not too much place like a pub, in a semi-lit environment, with a cold beer, is quite a great way to open up.

But when I say a drink it might as well be a coffee or a coke, whatever. And of course hanging out on the beach might do the trick.