I haven't commented on this thread before this, but "he scares me 'coz he makes me feel dumb" doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. It means she cares about what you think about her. It means she's intimidated by you, and if you were friendly towards her, (without being so obvious and direct about it) she would probably respond positively.
So it sounds to me like it's quite the opposite of 'clearly not liking you,'fyi.
tke >>19's advice.