lol, I think I state what the OP originally asked. I'm a guy and while overall I think we both have it hard, I tend to lean that women kind of have it harder. I mean throughout history, they weren't even considered equals. I hate how in the middle-east, they are forced to cover their faces in black (in the sun) and have to walk everywhere with a man or be prosecuted.
Not only that, but I thank god I don't have to give birth. Seems terrifying to me.
And in terms of romance, as guys WE are expected to make the first move. So if a girl likes a guy a lot, she doesn't have the compfort of just telling him. She has to stay quiet and drop hints.... that sucks.
And of course... ^_^ while girls lose their looks as they age, guys tend to get better looking in time or so I've heard..