Girl admitted that she found me attractive (12)

1 Name: Cosmonaut : 2008-08-08 10:17 ID:KfqoMrM6

...but now when I asked her what her AIM Status Message was all about she started talking to me about how guys treat her like shit and she feels used and that she hasn't spoken to any of her other guy friends about it except for me.

Also that she feels really alone and that she has nobody to talk to, that I'm the only person she has deep talks with, out of all her other guy friends.

I like this girl but I just don't know how to react, because it happened so suddenly...

Any advice?

Has anybody else ever had problems similar to these?



2 Name: Cosmonaut : 2008-08-08 11:04 ID:KfqoMrM6

OP here:

And I don't wanna end up in the fucking friendzone, how do I stop that from happening?

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-08 11:13 ID:nI9UJV1Q

the best way to avoid the friend zone is to rush things. Don't waste your days listening her emo stuff.

Try to arrange a meeting irl and rape.

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-08 14:54 ID:J5RZvvOO

>>3 is right.
Not too sure about rape. But yeah, taking things fast means you are aggressive or "confident" whatever that means nowadays.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-09 00:40 ID:Heaven

OP, remember that everyone on this board is a misogynistic retard - including me - so take everything we say with a pinch of salt. Having said that if she's whining about her problems she's probably just an attention-seeking moron (everyone is, not just women) so if you don't care about her shit just ignore her or try to manipulate her for sex like >>3 and >>4 suggest; if you do care about her shit then talk to her and be all like "Ooooh that's so sad..." or whatever sensitive emotional people do.

6 Name: bingo : 2008-08-09 19:19 ID:uVI+i1Ph

She wants someone to talk to. So listen to her and be like hmm hmm, and "that sucks" and "that's so horrible". DO NOT give any advice unless she asks for it. She wants sympathy, she wants someone she can vent to and she doesn't want someone to fix it. So just listen to her if you are willing to put up with it. If you don't feel like listening then tell her you are sorry but she needs to talk to someone else about her problems. If you put up with it she may be grateful later on and develop feelings for you.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-09 20:52 ID:Heaven

>If you put up with it she may be grateful later on and develop feelings for you.

Yeah, this is a brilliant plan. You can tell because thousands have used it before and the internet is full of people talking about their amazing sex lives and OH WAIT A SECOND HERE SOMETHING ISN'T QUITE RIGHT

I don't buy all this alpha male shit purely because it gets you the sort of woman who values power and money over all else, but there's a happy medium between total subservience and total domination. It doesn't have to be one or the fucking other.

If you sit around listening to this girl's problems thinking "God, when is she going to see me?", you're going to end up hating her. Don't wait for her. Make her see you.

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-10 21:58 ID:Heaven


Most intelligent post on /love/ for months.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-11 21:40 ID:Heaven

My first post on /love/ receives critical acclaim. I don't know whether to be pleased or worried.

captcha: yoy, a Jewish exclamation of happiness?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-08-27 05:27 ID:KfqoMrM6


11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-09-08 16:54 ID:2+BnmT/g

Granted this thread is a month old, but make a move! Don't want to be stuck in the friend zone? Don't get there in the first place- ask her out on a date.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2008-11-27 17:19 ID:A862pXm+


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