OP here.

>>2 Thanks, good advice, she is telling her mother today, I think it is better she tells them herself before I come meet them, and I think / really hope she will understand...

>>3 The latter, I never intended it to happen, she made a move on me and it was amazing. I haven't been with a girl for ages and I haven't felt like this about anyone for many years. I am not the dominant male type, I want to care for her and protect her and for her to do the same for me...