(note, another situation i have been in with this boy is very close to identical of the girl with a thread titled "boyfriend isses [advise me]" me and this boy have had the exact same argument dump situation over weed before, except we took only one day to get back together)

MY PROBLEM
my boyfriend and myself have been together for 4months now and he's great except he's never willing to accept anyone else's opinion or take advice, he believes he is always right, however the one issue that brought me here today is that he NEVER answers his phone or calls me like he PROMISES when he's with a friend.

We promised one another that we would let each other know when were going out with our friends etc. except today he said "don't come over Friday because i need to spend time with my little brothers because i always let them down" and that was okay with me, i understood.
next i know he's with his friend (male) and they're going back to his house "ill call you when i get there"
this same day i had a really important job interview which he didn't ask me about, i reminded him, still he didn't ask and he still hasn't rung me and continues to ignore his phone. it is now after 10 at night, i spoke to him at 4 after the interveiw.

i understand i may sound controlling, however this is an ongoing issue when he's with particular friends and i desperately need a new approach for explaining my feelings when he ignores his phone.

Another recent issue was him smoking weed, which most his friends do, part of the reason he doesn't spend much time with them anymore (school buddies, but were all grown up) though he's promised he won't touch the SHIT (mind my opinions) and when he ignores me and spends time with these particular people i become frantic he's either cheating on me or smoking weed (marijuana).