>>6 yeah thats right..... i have to think more optimisic and smile more, thats what people allways say to me, but someway, i cant, i have tried it, but feel emptier and soon return to how i usually am, i cant smile for more than 4-5 secs, and usually think about the worse possibility in anything....i have gone to the psycologist for 3-4 classes and they say me im ok, i just need to be more optimistic.... im not good at talking with people,no, im not good finding topics to talk with people, and some times people look at me with eyes saying "what of an idiot/strange/freak guy"(ok, i may be to paranoic in last part)but seriously.... i need to change that way of being before aproching more to her,any idea how?