It sounds like you have some sort of attachment issue man, tone it down a few notches　because I don't think anyone is willing to be with someone as desperate and insecure as you sound. I don't think this is about women or men, it's about you. Women don't need to be constantly told or made to feel special any more than you do and no-one can "be there" for you all the time, do you realize how emotionally draining that would be? Go get some counseling or something because it's not the job of a potential mate to try to match your seemingly expansive needs.

Consider dating your best friend though, he sounds like he'd be a great match for you.