why do you people put virginity on a pedestal. it is easily the most insignificant thing ever. whats the difference between the first time having sex and the second. and before you compare this to a women who can suck over 9000 cocks with every std know to man. if you are responsible it isn't even an issue how many people have boned you, imo. not to mention you can get just about all the stds though intercourse as you can with oral (there by preserving the ever important virginity). don't get in a relationship if they aren't returning the feelings you have for them.