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I also think it's the safest course.

I have some news too. We talked quite a bit this evening, and amongst other things I asked her about the impression I had that she didn't want to go back. Well, obviously, she isn't very happy over there. Apparently she doesn't like the location, and is often alone and bored. She isn't that into the friends of her fiance, who are quite different from our other band of friends. She also told me that she was surprised because most of the people thought she was happy.

I think she mainly stays there because it's "stable", and she used to have quite a wild lifestyle. Maybe she feels it's her chance at "going back in file", I don't know. Maybe she thinks it makes her parents more proud of her than if she just hang around and had fun. It's... not healthy. So, I'm kinda worried about that for her. And funnily enough it's not because I could have some interests in the story.

We then were joking about stuff and I told her about how my place was. She joked about coming to hang out. I said "dare ya". Seconds later she was seriously considering taking a trip to see me next week. It's a bit far (but nothing unmanageable), but it'd be weird that she suddenly leaves to see a guy she doesn't know that well, no? Her fiance doesn't know about what we did, obviously, but even then it would be... weird, no?

Well, at least that's what I told her. I said that I was okay with it, because I have no real reason to object, but that she has to understand that it could lead to some diplomatic incident. She said it would be in all innocence, but well... stuff happens. Happened. So, yeah, right.

Well, that's for the news. Input is still appreciated.