Probably the last update for a while.

I persuaded her that it wasn't such a good idea, while still having her recognize that her situation maybe wasn't that much of a good thing for her. She didn't come over, recognizing that stuff would most likely have happened again.

We are keeping good contact and, oh well, we never know what the future holds. Wedding should take place around next summer if they get the finances, but who knows what decisions she could make by then.