>>33, male or female?

I went back to the first singing video before we met, and it's quite upbeat compared to the others. She seems like she's just having fun with it, while the others, which are after we met, seem like some kind of catharsis/lamentation. Status updates aren't often, and yeah, they start looking directed towards someone in particular after we met. She also recently posted a poem that could be pointed at me, but this is all speculation, I can't know for sure. Makes me think I should write a message though just to see how she's doing. It's possible it could be someone from her past.

I feel like I should take some kind of action, that this could be the tipping point in either direction.