I don't know what your bitching about, OP, as men are mentally and emotionally incapable of "love". Well, they are, kind of, but it's more akin to what a 3 year old feels than true, honest love like what women feel.

Mens version of "love" is really mostly lust, a dash of greed, and a subconscious biological desire to mate and produce offspring. Why do you think men only fall in love with beautiful women?

Furthermore, OP, your desire you "hold hands with a chick" isn't really a desire motivated by love, but rather a primitive bonding measure to ensure that your mate will stay with you until you have gotten her pregnant, much as a baby likes to cuddle with their mother in order to insure they their mother won't abandon them. It will fade with time.

It always amuses me when men think they have emotions and can feel things like love.