>>5 with social networking the way it is today, the word 'friend' is thrown around very easily so id say you could certainly remain friends that are at least attend social gatherings together without being completely awkward. but i wouldnt hold out hope for a quality platonic relationship unless his infatuation is only minor.

given that you arent even willing to discuss whether or not this board believes he is into you at all, its entirely likely he isnt as interested as you think he is anyway. in which case things would probably work out in your favor.