I've been seeing this guy I met on the internet. We're both vidya gaem nerds, into winter sports and fitness, and upwardly-mobile twenty-somethings. He's an officer in the armed forces and I'm a graduate student. We live about an hour away from each other and have been on three dates- one each weekend since he first contacted me on the site.

The first two dates have taken place in my college town which is far more interesting than the area around base. Still, our third date involved me going down there to see him and play video games at his house. I thought he'd make a move, but the most we did was sit pressed up against each other.

We're both very busy, and so we only communicate via text between dates. This weekend I will be returning to my hometown for spring break, so we will not see each other for two weeks. I would really like to break the ice physically and possibly move this to an actual exclusive relationship, but I'm a rather shy girl myself... though we never run out of topics to discuss when we're together.

Any ideas, Anon?