>>3
"guys are -always- willing"
That’s not always true you know
I personally like taking things slow, cause I’m lazy and don’t take well to sudden change.
if a girl tries to move things faster than I'm not use to that kind of makes me uncomfortable.
Even if I try to explain to her that I prefer to move things slow I sometimes get these accusations leveled against me:
That I’m two timing her
That I’m a not attracted to her
That I’m impotent
That I’m a homosexual
One girl even tried to link my love of anime and manga to pedophilia.

Rarely in this day and age is a guy in any position to say no.