why do you make things difficult to yourself? Why do you want to have contacts with hikikomori, the precise segment of people that are exceptionally talented at avoiding social contact like the plague?

It's a bit like looking for monks to go clubbing,...

Go out with well adjusted people, and learn from them the ropes of social skills. And when you are missing the hikikomori fix you can just come back here at 4ch, which is not in short supply of maladjusted sociophobics. ^_^