I want to hug you! I have two twin boys and I sit for hours sometimes in our little blow up pool hugging them. They are 12 but they still love moms hugs. I'm older, 40+ but I don't eat but one meal a day so that I can still look like a kid! I give good hugs. I am lonely too. Hang in there. IF you don't find a girl I'll be your cougar. ♥