so me and my girlfriend decided to take a break...and before we did, I told her if you find a new guy, you can just go with him and even sleep with him. So after 2 weeks went by, she calls me one night and tells me she misses me. So go to her place and find out the next day that she slept with another guy (she asked me if I've slept with another girl or not first). I was pretty shocked. She slept with somebody else not even 2 weeks before we broke up (but I did say you can sleep with whoever you want). The thing is I don't think she would have done it. Also, we have been dating for almost 4 years. How can you just sleep with someone weeks after you break up?
She now wants to get back with me. I told her ok, but then recently I told her no again because i was mad about her sleeping with somebody else so quick. I don't know anymore. I don't even know if I love her anymore.
What should I do people?
Please help
I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, then 2 days later she slept with someone else. I think that ruined our chances of ever getting back together.
I certainly don't think I want to.
but did you tell her you can sleep with others?...Also don't you think that she was honest enough to tell you about it?
You, sir, are a fucking idiot.
> I told her if you find a new guy, you can just go with him and even sleep with him.
> after 2 weeks went by... find out that she slept with another guy. I was pretty shocked.
why are you shocked that you told her something was okay and she did it?
Hmmm, this is a tough one. I'll just be giving my female two cents worth of thought here. If I were you, don't jump into reconciling with her because it seems that she doesn't know what she wants. After breaking up with you, she sleeps with someone else then asks to get back with you. It's better if the two of you went your own separate ways and sorted things out, especially her. This will give her a chance to know what she really wants, and also, this will give you a chance to determine if you still love her or not, because honestly, sleeping with someone else is a huge deal breaker. I do hope that you get to sort things out.
You asked a friend to watch your Home for two weeks, while you're on Hoilday. You said they can eat anything in the fridge, if they get hurgry. Prior to your flight home home, you call your friend and ask if the fridge is empty. You friend said she ate (only)ONE item from the fridge. You return and find she was speaking the truth, and then... you GET MAD?
Dude i hope she dumps yoU! YOU Lied to her; and she was Honest.
She is human; and you're not the ONLY person on the planet. Get-over your-Self; or loose a cool-&-honest chick.
i said that because I didn't want anything to constrain her...but for her to actually do it...wtf man 3.5 years and just sleeps with someone new a week later? wtf?