so me and my girlfriend decided to take a break...and before we did, I told her if you find a new guy, you can just go with him and even sleep with him. So after 2 weeks went by, she calls me one night and tells me she misses me. So go to her place and find out the next day that she slept with another guy (she asked me if I've slept with another girl or not first). I was pretty shocked. She slept with somebody else not even 2 weeks before we broke up (but I did say you can sleep with whoever you want). The thing is I don't think she would have done it. Also, we have been dating for almost 4 years. How can you just sleep with someone weeks after you break up?
She now wants to get back with me. I told her ok, but then recently I told her no again because i was mad about her sleeping with somebody else so quick. I don't know anymore. I don't even know if I love her anymore.
What should I do people?
Please help
>>9-12
Haha, what the fuck?
Sometimes it happens, but even though she slept with some one she become truly honest with that, I think relationship must have trust and honesty to each other. despite the circumstance, i think you still love her. Your just confuse in the current situation.
you have your woman with you.next to you.
she is da true woman, too.
i think you have to go
got everything.
u too smart.
you are my destiny.
I've been in the position of your girlfiend. I was with someone for nearly 3 years, until he suddenly told me he wasn't attracted to me didn't want to be with me anymore. I was devastated and ended up sleeping with a friend a few days later. He then told me he'd been planning on getting back with me but I'd "ruined" my chances. It hurt a lot. He didn't care.
If she really wants to get back with you, that other fling was probably nothing, and it's just something you're going to have to get over (hard as that is). I know it sucks to accept what she did but people do stupid things sometimes when they're feeling low. If she had the guts to admit what she did is a sign she trusts you and values you what you have together.
The only advice I can give you is to think about how much you love her. If it's enough, you should be able to find the strength to overcome it. But don't let her believe she has a chance with you if you have no intention of giving her that. That just makes things horribly complicated and difficult to let go of.
I know I'd have given anything to get a second chance from my ex, but I guess he didn't love me enough to think I deserved it. I really hope you can work things out with your girlfriend.
>>17
i really love him.
i want to get back with him.
>>17
i dont want your cockey dude.
take care of his grassy smelling butt 4ever.
ive done with him.
have a daydream and go touch yourself boy.
i like to seen you happy.
wow, it's taken this long for someone to make a Ross/Rachel reference?
.....WE WERE ON A BREAAAAK!!!
>>21
No one has made a "Ross/Rachel" reference because that would have been retarded.
take this from a girl. if i were your gf, and if she's anything like me, she probably thought you said that because you were planning on sleeping with another girl. and then, she may have had that feeling somewhere deeeeeeeep down inside her, that if you slept with another girl, you'd forget about her and stay with the new girl. so she wanted to make sure she'd have someone too, as not to look like the weakest link. one thing may have led to another and....
well, im not taking sides here, promise. i know that it may have been like this if it happened to me and my bf of 3 yrs in sept. if he hadnt said that, i wouldnt have slept with someone else or even thought about it. i wont sleep with him either cuz im only 14 ;P but you get what im talkin about, hopefully..
You fucked up by saying she could sleep with someone.