>>83 I don't think that move is an acceptable one for her. She's all about that heightened visibility lifestyle. She said it one of her interviews a while back, "When I first started writing songs, I was always scared that my songs were too personal — like, if I put someone's name in a song, people won't relate to it as much. But what I saw happening was, if I let my fans into my life and my feelings and what I'm going through — my vulnerabilities, my fears, my insecurities — it turns out they have all those things, too, and it kind of connects us." http://www.npr.org/2012/11/03/164186569/taylor-swift-my-confidence-is-easy-to-shake
That's the bottom line of what Taylor Swift the musician and celebrity is. That's why everything about her life is so public. Its not just her singing that's her career but how she lives her life in public and then gives the behind the scenes commentary on it in her songs and album. That's why I think if she does Emmy's with Tom, she will be front and center on the red carpet. Otherwise she won't bother.

Btw, the comments on that NPR interview are interesting and this is from 2012 btw.