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I'm not doubting your experience, I'm just saying that the middle ground you are looking for definitely exists, but you'll have more trouble finding it online than in real life.
And by lectures, do you mean actual lectures? Like in a hall with an audience? I don't think anyone is forcing you to assist to a conference about intersectionality or whatever topic du jour is being hotly debated on this brave, new, racially sensitive marketplace of ideas taking place at your college. If you are being forced to assist, let me know, I'm curious.
As an aside, I really like how neutral this place feels, precisely because there are people that can't stand these debates, and I think that's ok.