Although "hate male losers" is an obvious troll he or she does have some points. While there is the proverbial diamond in the rough the chances of that happening is slim to none. Generally if someone has not been in a long term relationship by a certain age chances are there is a reason. That is why it is a huge red flag. It means to watch out. I know I have too many mental health issues on top of other issues before I can get into dating. I never had a relationship last longer than a year and I am almost 40.