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1 Name: Cola : 2006-02-15 08:41 ID:vxJpuWQW This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

I had convinced myself that this year I'd confess to him. On Valentines day. But we talked and... I couldn't say it. It was a normal conversation.

I'm too shy. ;__;

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-15 14:09 ID:Heaven

write a letter

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-15 16:43 ID:qS0vOpXr

get a friend to hint it to him

4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-15 17:29 ID:LR0tO7v2


Grow some balls and tell him when you're both alone. You'll regret it later if you don't do it now.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-15 22:43 ID:NkvuFcf4


I agree. you just gotta give it your all :)

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-16 01:10 ID:Heaven

>Grow some balls

He may not like that :(

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-16 03:10 ID:K28EpdQB

Seriously though, even if you cannot work up the words... what is wrong with a handwritten letter?

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-16 03:43 ID:O22vzPxK

yeah its actually fine for girls, but guys cant

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-16 22:11 ID:NkvuFcf4

so is 1 a guy or a girl?

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-17 00:52 ID:K28EpdQB

>>1 is either gay or a girl, my bet was on girl, thus the letter

I have no clue if a letter would work for a gay guy though

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-17 04:30 ID:a98swSs7

Please, more details.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-18 20:05 ID:dpUEGMAN

I would love to receive a SHORT letter telling me how somebody feels. Long letters can be creepy.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-19 07:56 ID:nDxrAw0d

If you really feel that you have a chance, let him know. The usual thing is for a guy to confess but if a girl does it, thats...wow. I wish more girls would be like you. Its all personal gut, if you feel that he would like you or feel the same way, do some investigation ask around. BUt if you already know or just want to tell him, I suggest you do it asap. The more you wait the smaller the chance gets. and the harder it gets.

Good lUck

14 Name: Cola : 2006-02-21 10:53 ID:vxJpuWQW

I'm a girl. :)

But, see, I don't think I'll end up telling him. It was a nice idea, but when it comes down to it, I'm almost positive that he doesn't like me back.

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-21 14:00 ID:NkvuFcf4

what makes you say that? :(

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-21 15:09 ID:CGQgc5EH


You can't know for certain until you do it.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 02:36 ID:3e/yJI+H

yeah, you could give it a shot. you are a girl, at least. it's a lot harder when you're gay and you know the target of your affections isn't :/

18 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 03:03 ID:qS0vOpXr

What do you mean, it's harder for guys? I'm a girl, and I've asked guys out and I have been turned down repeatedly (and I've had to turn guys down) and each time it was really painful, on both me and the guy. Let's not generalize here.

That's not to say that you shouldn't try, you should if that's how you feel! Maybe ask around, or get a friend to find out how he feels indirectly. This has worked for me, a friend blurted out my feelings to the guy I liked, and later he asked me out. I think you'll regret it later if you say nothing. At least if if doesn't work out, you can know for sure that it wasn't because you didn't have the courage to try.

19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 17:32 ID:NkvuFcf4

I think what 17 meant is that at least when guys are rejected by girls, there's always a chance she might change her mind in the future. but if the person you like doesn't like your sex, then you're screwed.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-22 17:32 ID:NkvuFcf4

not in a good way

21 Name: G Otoko : 2006-02-23 10:00 ID:mnM6Slr6


You will never know until you ask. Isn't it better for you to ask and know either way and prolonging whatever is coming to you? Imagine if he did say yes and you two would be together this instant! Go and find out now! Good luck!

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-23 17:28 ID:VqDpfU8L

i say go for it, whay do u have to lose?

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2006-02-24 01:34 ID:ZwI5mwT2


I am a guy, and I recieved a handwritten letter from a girl that I would have been to shy to ask myself, it was quite a bit of a coincidence. So even if it dosn't appear like he would, you should just try.

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