A girl with a kid (23)

1 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 01:49 ID:JvLy8Q/k This thread was merged from the former /love/ board. You can view the archive here.

OK /b/, I am currently fucking the hottest girl I've ever gotten with. Really attractive face, nice tits, a little skinny but it just makes for a tighter pussy. Definitely the best looking I've gotten with. She is pretty cool to hang around with, is an absolute freak, and I'm not really spending any kind of money her.

She has a kid. I am of the age where I shouldn't even be thinking of kids (19). She'll be 19 in November and the kid will be 2 around the same time

Dump immediately or just be careful to not spend any money on her or her kid?

2 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 02:14 ID:BRbOUint

sage this shit

3 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 02:42 ID:JvLy8Q/k


4 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 05:19 ID:VusYzpgl

Don't get too attached. Be CAUTIOUS AS FUCK. Serious here. honestly. I wouldn't mess with any girl that has a kid. For more than one reason. But if you want to, fine. I'm just telling you this probably won't be anything but a good fuck for you.

5 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 09:22 ID:Heaven

Just be honest with her and ask her what is she expecting out of this relationship, based on her answer then ask yourself whether you're willing to give it to her.

If she only wants sex and you're ok with it then go ahead.

6 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 09:46 ID:tu6Ptz+8

No. You're at an age where you shouldn't need to be dealing with issues like this. You don't have the maturity or financial stability to give her what she needs. No matter what way you look at it, she is carrying extra baggage at a difficult age. She's probably looking for someone who can support her, but at the same time she's still young and isn't ready to give up her party years just yet. In short; she will have issues most other girls her age won't have. You have to be prepared for that if you want to get serious with her.
Making it clear that you just want no strings thing with her is fine, however it sounds like a pretty jerk-ass thing to do.

7 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 12:59 ID:Heaven

This is not /b/...

8 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-11 21:05 ID:JvLy8Q/k

If you saw this thread in /b/, its simply because it was the first place I thought of with anonymous posting. I remembered this site a little while later and thought I might get some more serious answers here.

9 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-12 02:56 ID:Heaven

It's probably the "OK /b/" at the beginning that tipped >>7 off.

Anyway, I agree with >>6, and can't add anything. Sorry that I cannot contribute any more.

10 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-12 06:00 ID:3+O8CGeE

Talk it over with her. The worse that could happen is that you end up dumping her or she dumping you.

You just have to make your position clear.

11 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-12 13:07 ID:IKvkJoa3

As you get older you will start meeting women with kids. There's a lot of it these days and it goes with being single.

12 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-13 03:25 ID:Heaven

I'd be upset with >>1's post, but being 19yo shallowness should be expected.

13 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-14 03:54 ID:nD6vlKmc

You are just not sufficient for her. It depends on how you feel, but believe you might have to even go against your feelings.

14 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 15:16 ID:JvLy8Q/k


>>It's probably the "OK /b/" at the beginning that tipped >>7 off.

Haha I can't believe I forgot to delete that. Thanks for all the advice

15 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 16:48 ID:FbncuV1e

leave her after kid-related-shit starts to happen, as for now, enjoy your lovely fuck friend.

16 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-18 18:03 ID:BechNQyc


I've done this before (I'm 21), and it turned out nasty. I've also seen two friends do it too, and it's not pretty. Run while you can.

17 Name: Secret Admirer : 2007-09-19 02:53 ID:dKSzkmZk

Watch out for women with kids. A regular 19 year old woman can have enough issues on her own. A 2 year old can have more than an enough issues on it's own. With their powers combined, it's a severe force to be reconed with. If you're not serious about this, and you think she might be in any way, RUN! Run fast, run far. (Or, you could go the more mature route and TALK! Talk lots, make yourself clear.)

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19 Name: Secret Admirer : 2017-03-29 15:11 ID:sDD4bIGY

I look forward to reading the kid's post in this thread in a couple years. He's 12 now at least.

20 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-09 20:07 ID:1MWMMnCi

Wow, the last reply is from 2 years ago, and the post before that is from 12 years ago, that's fucking crazy

21 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-11 18:19 ID:gSWCiWd5

that adds up to 14, in case you were un aware

22 Name: Secret Admirer : 2019-12-19 19:16 ID:1MWMMnCi

Yes, I know how to add, thanks. I was pointing out the gap between the 2 most recent posts.

23 Name: Secret Admirer : 2020-01-04 10:01 ID:h6pK8+Ob

Humbert Humbert report in please!

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